The majority of children will be fine. You can expect the majority of children to either be fine or to recover over time from some initial sadness, worry and distress. These children will need continued reassurance, stability and support from you.
Some children will need extra support. Some children will continue to experience difficulties that may not get better by themselves. These children will need continued reassurance, stability and support from you. They may also need early intervention strategies to alleviate more severe symptoms, like learning support or a ‘calm space’ where they can go if things become overwhelming.
You may see delays or disruption in learning, speaking, motor skill development and memory as children’s concentration can be affected. You can help by asking their suggestions for fun classroom activities, having a regular learning routine and giving older children some choice in preferred learning or assignments.
Some children will be scared of new things or find it harder to cope with changes in routine. You can talk to your class each morning about what is going to happen that day so children are not surprised and can prepare themselves if necessary. Warn your class well in advance if an event at school is coming up.
All children need time, patience, care and stable routine in the months following a traumatic event. Behaviours and reactions will come and go over time in varying levels of severity.
If you teach or care for younger children (0–5), you may see:
- increased tension, inability to relax or calm down
- increased sensitivity to small noises or movements
- loss of skills they recently developed, like feeding themselves or using the toilet
- increased fussiness and clinginess
- crying all the time or with increased intensity
- avoiding new things or going new places
- avoiding or getting frightened by reminders of the event
- listlessness or seeming limp
- diminished interest in things or a ‘spaced out’ stare
- resistance to directions or requests
- sickness more often with colds, headaches or stomach aches
- playing out or drawing the event, or ‘playing disaster’
- self-directed blame for the event or making up stories why it happened.
If you teach children in early primary school (6–8), you may see:
- mood or personality changes
- behaviours usually seen in much younger children
- increased tension and irritability
- increased sensitivity to small noises or movements
- increased clinginess or fear of being alone
- increased tiredness because they have trouble sleeping
- diminished attention and being easily distracted
- reluctance to wanting to be at school or see/talk to others
- acting out by hurting others or themselves
- changes in normal eating patterns
- new fears or old fears coming back
- lack of eye contact or a ‘spaced out’ look
- anxiety or worried about lots of things
- self-directed blame for what happened
- bodily aches and pains
- changes or delays in speech, memory or learning.
If you teach children in late primary or early high school (9–12), you may see:
- mood or personality changes
- increased tension, irritability or aggression
- increased sensitivity to small noises or movements
- diminished attention or being easily distracted or ‘blanking out’ for longer periods of time
- reluctance to wanting to be at school or see/talk to others
- withdrawing into themselves, not speaking to others or seeing their friends
- acting out by hurting others or themselves, taking risks or getting into fights with others
- changes in normal eating
- increased tiredness or sleeping in class
- new fears or old fears coming back
- lack of eye contact or a ‘spaced out’ look
- anxiety or worry about lots of things
- efforts to avoid reminders of the event
- changes or delays in speech, memory or learning
- a new awareness of death and mortality
- rebellion against or disdain for authority
- academic difficulties or trouble at school
- behaviours of a younger child (e.g. poor toileting, tantrums) or much older teenager (e.g. substance use, staying out late, promiscuous dating).
No matter their age, you should consider the child’s home life when responding to their reactions. Children may come to school dirty, tired or without a proper school uniform. They may misbehave, skip school or refuse to participate in class.
These behaviours are often communicating that things are not okay for that child. They may be exhausted from living away from home, they may have lost their favourite belonging or their parents may be having difficulty coping.
It is important to remain calm and patient with all children and offer extra support to children who seem to be having increased difficulties.